So I have a 2 year old little girl.. She is my world.. I work full time and so does my husband. I cant afford daycare so my mom watches my daughter durning the week.. I hate it .. I can not stand for her to be at my mom.. Her house is nasty .. She never watches her language around my daughter.. she feeds her junk food ALLLLLLL the time like she never eats a real meal or lunch there.. and shes a chain smoker and as no respect for me and my wishes as a mother.. I've asked do not smoke around her countless number of times and yet.. she'll have my baby on her lap and a cigarettes in the other hand.. Her and my 19 year old sister argue all the time in front of her.. I hate that.. like if me and husband even have a slight disagreement we go behind a close door.. Which is how i believe it should.. I just don't know what to do anymore.. my 2 yr old will tell me she doesn't want to go to her mema.. like i feel like a terrible mommy because i have to work.. and thats the only place i can take her.. Am I a bad mommy because I make her go ?? .. Advice needed :(