🤔 Not sure how to handle it-Advice Needed

Ok so me and this guy have been talking for about a good 6 months and I have no clue “what we are” and so I asked him last night and he said the same thing. He doesn’t know what we are either. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing because we’re on the same page or if it’s a bad thing and I should stop wasting my time? 🤔