There’s this guy I really would like to be friends with. We started out as coworkers and we started flirting sexually and then we hooked up a few times after I quit. And now we’re just friends (kinda). I always felt that he was just staying my “friend” so that if he ever felt horny again, I’d be a text away. Which I mean yeah sex is good but I also genuinely want a friend (especially since my best friend was a total b and I hate to cut her out of my life). So I asked him “do you just keep me around for sex?” He said “no how would that make sense. I haven’t tried to slide for a long time. That would be a waste of time lol” so I was like “oh okay!” But he’s very iffy. He’ll talk to me on the daily for like a week and the next week it’s just a convo here and there or he ignores me. He’ll read my messages and post on his snap story and not answer. So it’s just like v confusing. We’ve hung out a few times just chillin. But when ever I ask to hang he’s “busy”. Last time we hung out was halloween. I was thinking about maybe not starting the conversation and see if he tries to start talking to me first. This isn’t really a question I guess, more so a rant. Thanks for listening 🙏🏼