Fucked up his second chance

My ex boyfriend wants me back. He begged and begged over text for me to take him back. I told him we could be friends. However, he hasn't changed

He was going to take me on a date, but bailed last minute, like a half hour, because he wanted to spend more time with his dad, we had been talking about it for a week.

He was excited for the date until I said I didn't want sexual stuff, and he completely shut down about going out to eat. He was going to instead take me to Starbucks and target

He will NEVER text first.

So I'm just gonna, I guess, ghost him.

I gave him a chance and he's fucking it up