Can you lose your virginity with a strap-on/dildo?

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My girlfriend and I have been talking/dating for 1 year and a couple months.. We are both bisexual. She’s slept with guys before but I haven’t however and am still a virgin. Would she technically be “taking my virginity” if we have sex and she uses a toy to penetrate me? If so, I truly do love her and trust her so I wouldn’t mind losing my virginity. I was just curious..
(Yes we do currently have oral sex and use fingers but never anything bigger)

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I accidentally hit no before reading the story but if you are having sex with her then, yes it counts.  In my opinion, at least.

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I read once that it makes sense to say that you lose your virginity to whoever makes you orgasm first, which I totally agree with bc I didn't orgasm until my current boyfriend and I feel the deepest connection to him. Virginity is a construct anyway so you can really decide whether/how you've lost it

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You’ll lose your virginity to her if you two have sex... even if you don’t use the dildo

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Virginity is really just a social construct so you have to figure out what it means to you. For me any type of sexual activity with another that could make you orgasm I consider sex. So oral sex, fingering, using toys etc. If you feel like you’ve had sex then you have. But in terms of medically if talking to a doctor/gynecologist. Using toys with a partner, hand jobs, oral, penetration, anal all count as being sexually active.

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My girlfriend and I are in the same boat except she's the virgin I'm the lesbian who's only dated men before her. So we sort of both lost our gay virginity to eachother but she's all mine once I have enough money 😈 We have been dating six months now. Good luck to you!💕🏳️‍🌈

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medically speaking you lose your virginity when you break your hymen... spelling from what I believe... you can lose your virginity in many different ways, you have already lost your oral virginity and your virginity when it comes to digits... if you use a strap on i or dildo chances are you will lose your medically termed virginity and your dildo/strap on virginity. good luck

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Virginity is a social construct. Its It's really just whatever you would count it as.

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From.my understanding if your having oral sex you are loosing your virginity but some say only if its a real penis not a girlcock meaning not strapon fucking because its not a real dick.but everyone is going to.tell you different just role with it who cares have fun.i.think.third base is loosing your virginity but most people especially men are going to.tell.you only real dick.is loosing your virginity.

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yes i believe so. to lose your virginity you don’t need anything that a man can produce you just need something long enough to “pop your cherry” so it probably would work :)

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Nope because its doesnt mean that u lost ur virginity its just only that u tore ur hymen... hymen can be torn by many things like even doing sports...it cant be because its like sport take ur virginity if hymen matters... losing virginity means if a man put his penis inside and cum(ejaculate) inside ur vagina...

Can you lose your virginity with a strap-on/dildo?

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