Me and my partner (both 31) have been ttc for 8 months at my instigation after over a year and a half discussing coming off bc. My partner only ever says negative comments such as we can’t afford a child (we can), I’ll have to work full time (i don’t want or need to) after we start a family. I’m feeling very disheartened, I always imagined this to be such an amazing time and it really doesn’t feel like that. For the first few months we didn’t track or anything however, this month I did and when I told my partner the dates he said it was too much pressure 😔.

Sorry for the rant. I’m just feeling at a loss as to what to do.