well as a child i was sexualy used against my will by my fathers girlfriend at the time. my father has past a few years ago and niw body knew it had happend to me, litteraly nobody. so i am in an realasionship for more then an year now and last week i told him the whole story.... i asked hin clear nott to tell it to anybody, but he did to his parents.i

am so upset and i dont know if i should be angry or should leave it. i have been crying the whole evening but the point is is that i am laeving tomorrow to another county with him to go to an spa resort.... is it going to ruiin my vacantion or should we talk after ???