this is my 1st miscarriage after having 2 healthy baby girls 5 and 3. all my mom husband and doctors say "least it happened early with the baby didn't grow any arms or legs then it would of been harder on me" either way it still hurts they say I can try again but it isn't the same I wanted that baby that pregnancy seems no one understands me or my feelings. And is it wrong for me to be upset when my cousin is having a baby around the same time I would have so now I can't even talk about baby without being upset. Sorry it's very long I have no one to talk to about my issues that understand.