I️ FINALLY LOST MY VIRGINTY.. KINDA

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months and we r both extremely comfortable around each other and very informed about sex. We had done many things just had never actually had sex because we were waiting a bit to make sure we were ready. He has fingered me many times including right before we had “sex” but here’s the thing. HE COULDNT FIT. And he’s not like huge or anything. About 6 inches but he is wide. And I️ am a virgin but we were both so ready and then it just couldn’t go in. Does anyone know why? Has anyone else experienced this? If so how do I️ fix it? I️ want it to be enjoyable for both of us and we r both feeling a little discouraged