Stopping BC...

Sammi

I stopped taking my BC, last active pill was Oct 21st and got my period the 22nd. My husband and I are not actively trying as we are going to Cancun the first part of Februray but wanted to give my body tome to adjust back to "normal" after stopping BC. Well I am a week late and I've taken multiple tests and negative, I know this is common after stopping BC which I've been on for 8 years. Just wondering if my cycle doesn't go back to "normal" for a few months how will I know if I'm ovulating? I know there are tests but how do I know when to take the tests as I don't want to miss my fertile window. All I can think about and want is a baby but my husband wants go wait which I understand and see his point, Just hard to think about anything else when that's the next step and it's so close!