A few weeks ago I got a weird feeling about this guy my wife mentioned once or twice. She doesn’t talk about him a lot, but I couldn’t shake the feeling.

So... I did the wrong thing and looked at her messages. This guy is regularly telling her she is hot and flirting with her. She deletes messages but I’ve seen him say a couple times that he hopes he isn’t being too forward. She always brushes it off, says it’s okay.

Last week I saw a message and he picked her up for work. I don’t mind her going out with friends, she’s hung out with people before. But it really bothered me that I knew nothing about this meeting.

I really am sure she isn’t cheating, but... what is going on?