birth control?!

Summer

I have been using the xulane birth control patch for about 5 months and i have also been having lots of trouble during intercourse 😣 my Dr. Thinks it could be throwing my hormones off causing problems down there it hate that because i am probably going to switch but i lovvee how simple and easy to remember the patch is for me she recommended the 3 year arm implant Nexplanon but i have read so many things about it..she told me i wouldn't have a period while on nexplanon but does it have an oppsite effect on some woman? Please tell me your experience good or bad! Also i have a almost 6 month old and dont want any more babies until i finish college so 3-5 years..i am open to any other options except the pill, nuvaring, iud..

And if anyone has used any form of birth control that isnt common please comment! Like the sponge? Or spermicide or the cervical cap, there are others that are not common but i cannot think of the names . has anyone else had problems with the patch? this is a TMI lol but when having sex with my SO it feels like i could rip and he can up the tip in and i am almost in tears we use lots of lube and it still feels that way btw i didnt have a vaginal birth we normally start having sex and dont get to finish because im in pain..please help!😲😬