Before I make things worse...

Hi ladies.

I’m conflicted on whether or not I should get an abortion. I know ultimately the decision is left up to me but I would like some input.

I’m in a bad situation where I have a kid already and I’m trying to finish up my associates degree.

I’m about three months pregnant and it’s interfering with my school. I’m really behind in my work.

My boyfriend feels either way about the baby. He’s not much help on helping me decide. He feels it’s solely my choice but I think it should be our choice.

Anyways besides college, I’m living with my mom and I have a hard time finding someone to watch my kid. My grandparents do it for now but my grandmother talks shit about it.

Which I feel she is a hypocrite because she watches my cousin baby and for a while didn’t do shit with her life. I’m actually in school trying to get myself together for a career.

My boyfriend is willing to let me and my kid move in if I have the baby.

I’m not really looking for judgement in my situation. I know I wasn’t a logical thinker. But I would like some advice on how to move on if I chose to keep it and how to detangle the mess I’m in.

And if you think I should abort, I would like to know why.

Thank you.