So lost with my own body

Ladies, I need advice... I need hints, tips, ideas anything you could throw at me. My cycles have all been pretty regular since coming off birth control and starting our journey TTC. Ovulation right on time, AF right on time. However, this month received my peak last Sunday (nov 20) almost 2 weeks late, then literally went right into AF Wednesday the 23. Finished spotting Sunday the 26..... but the entire time from peak, even till today my cervix are still high soft and open. Am I out for sure this month? Has this ever happened to you? If it did, did you get your BFP? How could AF even come in that cervical position? I have never been so out of touch with my own body than these past 2 weeks. Do I still consider myself 6DPO? Or just count on next cycle?