my husband and I have been married for just over a year and a half now. we have 2 beautiful babies and our own house. well when we first started dating, 3 months into the relationship, I was contacted by multiple girls and told he was cheating on me with them. I refused to believe them and stayed with him. a couple months later we got married and things seemed fine. we moved a long way away from everything and have been doing fine. well we went down to where we orifinally lived to visit and he hungout with a friend for a couple days. while he was with said friend he was tctinf one of the girls he cheated on me with and was making plans to hangout with just her and him alone. and he kept trying to deny it even though I saw the text with my own eyes. well we are moving back to that place in a couple months. I dont want to not be with my husband. I do love him and I dont want him not in our children's lives. our son even acts up when my husband isnt home. I know in my heart of hearts he will cheat again when we gr8 back there. I was wondering if anyone has an open marriage and if it works? I'm thinking about tellinf him when we get there that an open marriage is okay. like not adding another person to our marriage but sleeping with other people with each other knowing. I just don't want to lose my husband.