Should I leave?

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My husband has a Snapchat, that's not the issue the issue is that he always logs out when I'm around and is constantly uninstalling/installing the app. I don't snoop, we got into an argument because I downloaded the app so maybe i could see his stories but he had me blocked. I asked him to log in and that just escalated things, 2 weeks later he finally logs in and shows me, the one thing that bothered me was that he was snapping a female who he used to work with, I caught them messaging each other on fb and one of her messages said "I was going to message you but your wife could have got upset" after confronting him he deleted everything. I'm guessing he downloaded Snapchat just to message her, he said that he always speaks to her when I'm not around because I will be upset which indeed pisses me off. This is not first time this he does this to me, I am planning on leaving him. What would you ladies do? is this not a good enough reason to divorce?

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just sneaking around and texting another female is cheating.. but there’s ways to fix things if you truly love him and wanna work it out to save the marriage.. but if you’re fed up with it, and know it’ll keep happening.. then why stay? you deserve to be happy and worry free.

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I dunno... it's hard to say. He could be hiding things from you because it's inappropriate, or he could be hiding things because you are unreasonable and controlling and won't let him have a friend. Either way he cant be lying and hiding things from you or your relationship is doomed even if you don't seek divorce.

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Yes. Sly little bastard. No trust there. Dump his ass.

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You asking if it’s a good enough reason makes it seem like you’re just looking for a reason to leave him. If you aren’t happy then leave. That’s disrespectful as heck but you should try just talking about it first if you don’t want to leave.

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Ok. So first let's not jump to conclusions. Maybe the whole reason he doesn't want you to know is because you get mad. Idc if my man talks to anyone as long as if and when I ask him what they're talking about, he tells me. Or if I ask to see, he shows me. Sometimes men hide things from women because they want to avoid an argument. They don't want to make us mad. I don't see why he blocked you tho. Sit down with him and talk about it. no heated arguments. Just compromise. If he lies or you feel like you can't trust him. Then maybe the relationship is over.  If he loves you and you love him and you guys respect each other then you will figure it out. If not, it's over. Just leave. No use in trying if he's not playing his part.

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technology the cause of relationship problems..smh😑

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I was just in a similar situation. It’s definitely up to you and whatever you think you should do. I decided to stay with my boyfriend since I’m almost 8 months pregnant and relationships aren’t perfect. I’m not making excuses for him. Because what he did was completely wrong. I’ve been neglectful to our relationship since I found out I was pregnant and this was him just seeking attention. But he’s been trying to prove to me he’s trustworthy and with a little one on the way I feel like we should try and stay together. I told him we definitely need to work on it. So if I see that he’s really trying then I will too and if it seems like he goes back to doing stuff being my back then we can call it quits. But Every situation is different! Good luck to you!

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Yes you should leave he's emotionally cheating at least that slimy sac of hog shit. Its almost impossible to trust someone after they cheat and it is always in the back of your mind it never goes away even if you do work it out.

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I agree that it's a good idea to seek counseling. At the very least, you are having difficulty communicating with each other. He may see your actions as overbearing and unwilling to trust him, while you see his secrecy as evidence of cheating. Talking with a counselor or therapist might help the two of you figure out how to give him the space he needs while still assuring you that he is being faithful. If he doesn't have any interest in trying to work things out though, I would take that as a big red flag.

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If he feels the need to hide it then yes I’d be concerned on content. My hubby works with women and messages them outside of work but if I ever wanted to read the messages he’d unlock and hand me the phone. Same as if he wanted to see my phone. I’d be concerned if he started deleting messages and hiding messages

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