4 year old daughter

Nicole • Pregnant 🤰🏼 with my rainbow 🌈 baby 👶 due March 25th !! Sooo excited!!!!!

So I’m a first time mom of a 4 year old I’m having trouble with her not listening and talking back and throwing things I know this is “normal” for a 4 year old but I’m absolutely loosing my mind! I’ve yelled at her I’ve spanked her I’ve tried the corner I’ve tried taking her favorite toys away I’m just at a loss on how to deal with her being such a handful?? Any suggestions on what I can do???