Today I had an appointment to check on the twins are on track and if everything is ok. I asked my husband 2 weeks ago to take time off work to go to this appointment with me as today’s appointment was very important to me. He said he would but waited until the very last minute today to tell me he wont make it. ( This was expected as he hasn’t made it to any of my appointments yet, and the one he did come to he showed up as I was leaving knowing what time it was). My appointment did not go well, as I lost one of my babies 😭. The other is healthy and has a strong heartbeat. Probably a mistake on my end but in my shock and sadness I texted my husband and expressed my disappointment with why he doesn’t make more effort in making my appointments but he would schedule time off in advance to spend time with his friends. Then I told him at the same time that I lost one of the babies. What made this worse is that he did not ask me if I was ok or expressed any concern or interest in the news about the babies. He just tried to make up an excuse about not being able to take time off. To add to this he comes home 2 hours after he should have (after letting me know he went to get his own food) and once he got home he just started slamming things around and acted like the biggest jerk to me and told me to stop being such a baby about things and if I want to be pissy then so be it, again not mentioning anything about the news and completely disregarding me in tears. I am stumped and not sure what to do, and trying to not be too emotional and stay strong for my baby so that nothing will cause something to go wrong there, but I am finding this extremely hard. 😭

Update: my husband avoided me all night and slept in the spare room. He barely looked at me this morning and is late coming home again tonight with no messages from him. I couldn’t even go into work today, coping with the news is really hard for me. I broke down multiple times today already. I don’t know what to do 😰