My sister and mother-in-law are both extremely independent strong willed women and both think that they should be in charge of my baby shower. My sister has made it clear that she wants to plan EVERYTHING but she’s also not letting anyone help like at all. This has hurt my mother in laws feelings. I want my sister to feel proud of planning a baby shower but don’t want anyone’s feelings hurt. I also know that theres no way either of them would ever compromise and let the other help out. For both women it’s their way or the highway. Me and my mom are just sitting here like 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ any advice?? lol I hate conflict.