Anal or nah

Ok so is it just me or am I the only one that absolutely hates ANAL. I've tried lubes doing it slow I HATE IT!!! I can't seem to enjoy it. The ripping in my asshole and the sensation that I'm about to shit myself isn't a turn on!! Not to speak about the fact that I have to take the biggest shit after!!! Let's just end it when he cums it burns like helllllll!!!! I ve been with him for over 2 years and last year I gave it up maybe 3 times and this year I fucking refuse!!!! Share your thoughts.