I lost my daughter at 23 weeks in may and my husband and I decided to start trying again this past October. lately my sex drive is low or none existing. for us that's huge... with Christmas coming I'm just feeling down cause this would have been the first Christmas with the baby. if j u st feels hard lately and part of me wants to keep trying but another just doesn't care anymore. just last 2 months I've been super excited about trying again but now I don't really care :( I'm hoping it's just the holidays and i get out of this slump