He’s Chaldean(middle eastern) I’m Mexican I’m 30 he’s 29 I have kids from a previous relationship he has non. I just found out I’m pregnant and he told his mom and she told him to leave that thanks to him no one will want to marry his sisters. I feel like I’m living a soap opera he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but wants me to have an abortion to keep his family out of peoples mouth. On Friday night and yesterday morning he asked me to marry him but I said I did not want him to feel forced because of the pregnancy and he said he did not want to loose me. I told him I want his mother’s approval but he said there is no difference that nothing will change. I don’t want to loose him but I’m tired of feeling like I’m a tv show story and that no matter what he’s family will not want to talk to him. I’m very close to his sister and she disagrees with me having an abortion I hate this feeling I hate what’s going on. I feel like disappearing so I can get over all this!! If he ask me to marry him again I will say yes because I love him and I know he loves me too.

UPDATE!! His family knows and he’s mother agreed for us to keep the baby but now he’s telling me I’m going to destroy him because he’s not ready that I know the feeling of this type of responsibility because I have kids from my previous relationship. It hurts because he tells me he loves me but what is love and wanting me to terminate my pregnancy. I love this guy and I know he loves me too and I know he’s scared but who’s not scared at first. My only worry is he’s going to change the good relationship we had he’s my best friend my lover and my partner. I don’t want to loose him but I don’t want to do something stupid 😔