Why do girls get mad at the girl there man cheat on them with?

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This is a crazy concept to me, if my husband cheated on me I wouldn't get mad at the girl she has no loyalty to me. I would be mad at my man I wouldn't want to take it out on the girl why as women do we do this. I have a friend that got cheated on and she beat the other women up but she's still with her man that cheated?

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I would be pissed at both-IF she knew about me because simply, I was raised you don't do that. But I'm sure in the heat of the moment that's why your friend beat up the girl. Not that it makes it right.  I'm more in the mind that if your cheated on, as much as it hurts you had lost that person already because they went searching for something else so pull up your big kid panties and leave.

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I'd be mad at my husband and mad at the girl if she knew. What kind of person  knowingly goes after a married man. There are lots of other available guys out there.

I actually knew a girl once who only liked married men because they were  more of a challenge.  She liked to see if she could steal them away from their wives.  Disgusting.

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For the first year after my boyfriend cheated on me I was only mad at the girl for some reason. No idea why I'd be mad at her and not him. I saw her as a slimy little home wrecker who wrecked my relationship and wanted to do whatever I could to get back at her. I hated her with a burning passion. But now I'm realizing that I actually don't care about her so much (her face or even just the mention of her name still pisses me off though)  as I am mad at my boyfriend.... It took me about a year and a half to realize that SHE wasn't the one dating me, HE was. Although she's still a slimy little hoebag to me.

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If the girl knew me and my fiance were together, I would be just as pissed at her as I would him.

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I was mad at the girl too because she knew he was married but she didn't give a shit. She still went after what she wanted. Both of them were in the wrong and both of them got the same shitty treatment from me. Had she not known about me, then I wouldn't have been mad at her too.

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I have wondered this so many times

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SHES A DUM BIRD ASS BITCH AND NEEDS HELP!!!

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If the girl is fully aware that you guys are together than what's the point in not being mad at her too? That's how you get walked all over. I would never let two people disrespect me so much. Nobody deserves that. They'd both be cut off.

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I actually befriended the girl my ex was talking to. She had no idea we were together he told he we broke up. We have a son together but live separately. So I had no idea he was talking to her. But it wasn't her fault so I can't get mad at her.

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I feel the same. If I were with a guy and he cheated, most of the blame would definitely go on him. It would be him I was most angry at. I have no idea what kind of picture he was painting when he told the other woman about our relationship. He could've played with her feeling and told her he loved her more or something. 
Or he may have never told her about the relationship at all, and the end of the day he was the one who actively cheated.

Why do girls get mad at the girl there man cheat on them with?

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