Hi guys! So my ex of 13 months broke up with me on Nov 16 of this year. It was kinda hard for me but he just acts like I never even existed and I feel like its bullshit pretty much. Especially since he broke up with me over not being able to afford living together at the moment. We also didn't have the best Relationship, with me having crohns and such he would start fights with me while I was in hospital and such and honestly when he ended it I was at a witts end.

Well now fast forward about two or so weeks and I had met and started talking to this new guy😍💕 he's dorky but REALLY SWEET. He treats me with so much respect and I was upfront with him about my situation and everything with my ex and with me having crohns disease and what not and he said he didn't care he'd take it slow and be there for me😇

well now one of my best friends from highschool swipped up on my story on snapchat

This picture to be exact 😂

And she's like "who tf are you talking about" and i told her how i met this nice guy and what not and she decided to go off on me because its only been about three weeks since we broke up. Honestly i told him my situation and we are taking it a little slow and what not but i got to meet his family over the weekend and they are realy nice and this is the happiest ive been in months even when i was in a relationship. Should i feel wrong about being happy and not "taking time for myself" Honestly i have three jobs and he lives and hour away so its not like were glued together rn either but i can not get over the fact that she kept telling me "you need time for yourself"

Any advice or opinions??