Stress

So me and my husband have been stressed a lot lately. I'm the kind of person who takes the stress out in sex and I just want to have mind blowing sex to make me forget about being stressed have a nice hormone boost and just let out my frustrations and relax once it's over. My husband on the other hand wants nothing to do with anything sexual when he is stressed. I'm talking like not even a kiss goodnight. We are on 2 totally different sides of the stress relieving spectrum here. :/