My kinda ex

Me and my boyfriend broke up because he was lying to me and he went to a party and had sex with another chick 5 hours later but I still love him. So we are trying to work things out again because I want one last shot he tells me he loves me and that I’m his life long partner. All though we do have a long distance relationship I was his first and he was my first but he doesn’t want to come down and see me. I don’t understand I just want some quality time with him to talk about what happened. But he gets frustrated with me everytime I mention it. He doesn’t have a job, stays up all night, sleeps most of the day And plays the PlayStation but doesn’t really have time for me. What should I do?