What should make you forgive your spouse for cheating ?

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fuckin nothin. throw the whole spouse away. if he can think of me and still stick his pickle in anotha woman he gotta go QUICK

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honestly my bf cheated on me while I was 18 weeks pregnant with our daughter. we argued for so long and he swore he wouldn't do it again (LIES) but I loved him so I fell for the bs and took him back but looking back I wish I would've walked out of that relationship then and saved myself the heart ache of dragging myself along. this happened almost 3 years ago and I broke up with him last month. I still love him but that's not gonna make me go back to him. once they cheat or do anything wrong and you take them back they automatically think they can do whatever and you'll take them back like last time...

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What are you trying to ask? No one should “have” to forgive a cheating spouse.

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In my opinion I say .Fuck that ! The so so shouldn’t be cheating in the first place when you’re both in “love” .Why deal with people who aren’t serious about staying committed to someone. Once a cheater always a cheater! I️ seen it happen..Don’t need that negativity in my life. So if it ever happens move on there is always someone else waiting for you.

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in my opinion I think that with cheating its important to look at the whole picture. if you love this person and you have a good relationship and you feel like you can work through it and through work eventually forgive and move on then i would do it. a lot of people will tell you that when your spouse cheats you should leave, that's so untrue. lots of people happy in their relationship will cheat, and sometimes you won't ever understand the reason why. if the relationship is unhealthy and toxic and you dont see anything getting better then I'd consider leaving. so many things complicate these things though, there's never a solid you should stay or you should go. when you leave a relationship that you've been in a long time, or a marriage, you're not just leaving them, you're leaving your whole life and having to start over. if its what needs to happen then it's what needs to happen. if you feel like you love them and you're not ready to move on and  they're not ready to move on then I'd really think about it. sometimes theres a lot more good than bad. I hope i dont get shit for saying that, that's just what I believe.

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My boyfriend cheated on me. Sort of. He was drunk and messaging another girl asking to meet up with her but they didn't. 
When I found out I was distraught and heartbroken because I put my full trust in him 100% and love him with my whole heart.
I decided to stay with him because I feel like he was genuinely sorry and disgusted with himself and I trusted my gut feeling which was telling me it wasn't time to leave him yet.
It's been about 4 months since I found out and our relationship has been better than ever. He is really trying to prove himself to me. I feel so happy that I stayed with him although sometimes I do get insecure but I'm trying to build my trust back up.
Had he of actually met up with her and slept with her then it may be a different story.

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Make you?? Huh?