What’s it like to be with a dom?

Question

I like to be gentle and this guy talking to me told me he is dominant. What do guys who are dominant like to do and how much do you like it?

Answer

Honestly my boyfriend and I switch back and forth between whos dom. But most he is. And I am obsessed with it. Like if I don’t “listen” to what he says (ex: if he tells me to turn around and I don’t) I get punished. Spanking, choking, etc. but for each relationship I could be different. We experiment with a lot of different things not just that. So if you really want to know I would ask him and see what type of stuff he is into.

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I think what’s most important for you to know and communicate in this situation is what YOU are into. I recommend getting very clear about the specific things that turn you on in a scenario of someone else having control over you. Also get clear on everything that you are NOT okay with,and present these clear boundaries and desires to him from your own authority over your body. If he can do the same, then you find out where your interests overlap... and hand over your power to him for a session. After it’s done, talk and see what went wrong and right, lather rinse repeat. My 2 cents... maybe do some google research while you’re at it :-)

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with someone dominant it’s so important to make clear what you’re comfortable doing and what you’re not comfortable doing. my boyfriend likes to ‘punish’ me by spanking, choking, gripping my hair etc. definitely feels good if you’re into it but make sure you communicate beforehand 💙

What’s it like to be with a dom?

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