Real labor 35 weeks pregnant

Last night I was having back to back contractions. Went to labor and delivery... they thought it was BH so they tested it.. made me pee in a cup to see if I had a UTI or an infection which can cause false labor. It came back great no infection. Their next test was hydrating me. They said when you're dehydrated this can cause BH false labor shit. 3 hours past and still back to back and I had 4 IV bags. Should of said this in the beginning but when I got there I was dilated to 1cm. So after that they said they will give me a shot that will "totally stop " the contractions 2 hours later nothing still having back to back contractions but no dilating at ALLL.... they wanted and needed me to get to 2 cm so I can have an emergency c section (my son is breeched). My OB who I love was on call that night and obviously tried everything to make them father apart or to stop them so nothing worked. They made me sign c section papers they gave me the band for when it happens they were prepared for it. All the nurse said false labor but I was there 7 hours they weren't BH. My OB now was off call but STILL came in because he knew something was going to happen. He confirmed I'm in active labor but since I'm only 35 weeks they can't to a c section even thought my baby is measuring a weeks ahead. So they sent me home with contractions 3-4 minutes apart it's that bogus! So it's the next day and I'm having bad pain ALL OVER AGAIN I'm timing them and they have a rhythm same pattern and allll.

I just wanted to know because I'm a FTM do you think I dilated to a 2 with having so many contractions that aren't going away..??? And they're close together