I need some encouragement. I'm 34 with one child that is 14. At 13 yrs old I was raped by my cousin. I was to embarrassed to tell my parents until I unexpectedly had a miscarriage. Five yrs later I got pregnant with my son. I had no medical problems with my pregnancy. About 9 months later I became pregnant again. My husband and I weren't ready for another child so at 17 weeks pregnant I had an abortion.... something I regret doing till this day. That was back in 2004. Since then I've decided to have another child but I've had no success. Never been on birth control and I've tried everything to get pregnant but no luck. My insurance doesn't cover a fertility doctor and I can't afford one. Beginning to think that I can't have anymore kids since I've been trying for literally 10 yrs. Anyone with a story similar to mines that ended up having a baby after trying for so long?