How do I get out of an abusive relationship if I have absolutely no job?

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I think I’m in a start of an abusive relationship. I know it’s emotionally abusive but last night he did something I never thought he would do, he punched me in the face. I got up to make a bottle at 2am for our 9 month old, when I got back in the room I threw the bottle on the bed next to my fiancé, i know it sounds weird but I was giving it to him to feed our son so I could turn the lights off and I was just to lazy to walk all the way across the room lol. I honestly didn’t think it would piss him off so bad he jumped out of bed and punched me in the face (YES THIS IS THE FULL STORY) I was literally so shocked I just stood there.. then he drove off and didn’t even see how I was doing or said sorry. He blamed it on me for throwing the bottle at him. Like so that justifies for what you did? NOT TO MENTION MY BIRTHDAY IS TODAY. But anyways I want to break up with him so bad, but I don’t have a job. I’ve been the one staying home with our son since he was born so he has all the money. I know I need to get out of this, but I have to be able to buy my son diapers and put a rough over his head. I dropped out of high school when I had him so I don’t even have a Diploma. I’m so scared..

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if you don't have friends or family to turn to call a domestic violence center in your area. pack what you need, if you have a joint checking account half that money is yours, take it and leave.

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I think you should take everything you need for you and the baby and head straight for a shelter. I disagree with staying with family cause after a while the charity runs out and ALOT of times family convinces you to go back to the man so you can work it out!!!    yeah ok!😒😒😒.    you also need to figure out what comes next. What and how you will come to support yourself and child. I wish you the best and think your brave for leaving a terrible situation.

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you could always ask a family member to stay with them. you could also look into shelters for victims of domestic violence. they can keep you safe & also help you find a job & a place of your own. coming from someone that stayed in an abusive relationship because of the exact same reason, please leave. it will not get better . you & your baby deserve better & deserve to be safe.

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If you have a family member  stay with them, if not go to a women's shelter. Girl my baby was 4 weeks old when I left my ex, I still had stitches in me, I was 19 and I went and got a job as a cashier just to make it. Im now 27 have a good job, 2 kids and with a good man, it gets better.

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First of all, is he there now? If he’s not do yourself a favor and call the police to report the incident and in the meantime, grab some nice strong chairs and wedge them under all of the door knobs so he can’t get in the home (so he can’t come in and hurt you again today) And get a restraining order on him. If you have any friends or family, call someone immediately and tell them what’s going on and tell them you need help. You can then file for assistance while you look for a job. Maybe you can have a family member or friend watch the baby for you so you can look for a job or work any job that maybe come immediately available.

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I’m sorry your gong through this; my son (just turned 10months old) his dad is abusive and such an asshole too so I can relate to you. Do you have family you can go to?