Please No Hate! Don't know whether to breast feed or not..

Hi Everyone!

I understand you're all avid breastfeeders here but please hear me out.

I am in two minds whether to use breast milk or formula purely because I don't want to take the bond away from my husband and his newly born daughter as I understand I can pump but that won't be until my supply establishes. He won't be able to get up for the night feeds and I feel bad as it feels I have bonded with her while she's in my womb feeling her every move and of course he has felt her move he gets excited and he talks to her all the time but I feel like I'm just taking that away from him.

I'll just ignore any negativity as this is a genuine worry of mine and I'd rather support then people spewing hate at me.

Hope someone can help☺️ xx