Before I begin a little back story is due please no judgement

My husband are very open about our sexual desires and relationship

I am a bisexual woman married to a man.. on the spectrum I lean more toward heterosexual

My husband is deploying soon and this is now his second deployment both we have been together we were talking about how it’s going to suck not being able to have sex while he’s gone

Then out of no where my husband looked at me and said “babe I want you to know if you wanted to have sex with a woman while I was going provided it was okay with her that you recorded and I got to watch id be okay With it” I told him i would think about it but now I’m curious if this is something that other military spouses do