So today my husband and I were in a fight all day, ignoring each other and basically not interacting at all. He goes to the bed at 9pm. I watch some tv, clean up but eventually run out of things to do and go to the bed at 10pm. Still both of us not wanting to be the one to apologize.

We finally talk it out but I'm still a bit upset. Then he starts getting frisky and at first I'm like no way back up you can't ignore me all day then expect to get some. But I also don't want to withhold sex as a punishment or anything so I play along. I can't get into it at all.

He even asks me if I'm ok but I just wanted it over so I said yes and let him finish.

I don't know if it's because I was still mad or what but I haven't ever had an experience like this with him before. I felt a bit used.

Has anyone else experienced their emotions getting in the way of their sex life?