so i haven't been masterbating that long and i'm not really sure if i have orgasmed or not...like sometimes i can become really wet but i've never felt anything amazing?? and lately i've been trying running water from the tap in the bath but if it's on my clit it feels great but i can't handle it for long?? like it's too much?? and i kinda start shaking and i have to grit my teeth together?? should i persist because this is how you orgasm or am i doing it wrong?? thanks!! xx