So i wanted to say something really important for everyone one <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a>. I feel like its a pretty serious thing.

Unfortunately, may of us weren’t able to have someone teach us about an effective way to go about relationship, sex, love, self worth, and childhood, so im about to go ahead a school y’all really quick!

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Ive been reading so many stories on here about ladies that have decided to have sex and have accidentally gotten pregnant or have gotten pregnant and realized their partner wasn’t willing to stay... it hurts my heart because at this point,

you make an even bigger decision, keeping the child or not! At this point you are making a decision for someone else who cant even speak up!

Please ladies, start using birth control. I dont care how amazing the guy is, how good his dick game is, or how effective you THINK the pull out method is. PLEASE get your guy to wear a condom and go get birth control!!!!! Its not that bad.

Sex last for a while, but a child or other possible STI’s will last for ever! A lot of men (not all) but especially when a guy isn’t ready or stable to support a child, may leave because he isn’t experiencing the same feeling of responsibility because he doesn’t have to be pregnant!!!

Some men will literally have the same mentality that he had before you got pregnant and still want to live the young and single life! thats not surprising because he doesn’t have to watch his period go away and carry a living thing in his body.

Aside from that, let me get even more REAL. A lot of men might have women on the side 🤷🏽‍♀️ and you NEVER-know because some men are great at hiding it! This guy could be going raw in another women and not saying a word to you.

He could have and STI and you wouldn’t even know it... You guys need to stop being in denial about a bad guy!!! Stop making excuse for these sorry ass men.

Its a tough mountain to climb being single and missing out out great things, but I promise you, a lot of these men ARE NOT worth it!!!!

At this point i have had too many friends continue dating or sleeping with a guy that is cheating on them, has given them something, or treats them like shit! And i am sick and tired of it!! Literally i just had my best friend have her first child at 21, me and my other friends had to tell her that we saw her man on TINDER!!!! Come on ladies.

Being a women is a GIFT. Know your worth. Having self love and self worth is when you dont let anyone compromise your own happiness and you dont let anyone choose how to live you life. Put tour foot down when ever something doesn’t feel right and when you aren’t putting your foot down, treat that situation like ABUSE. Most of us would scream and shout and leave if we found out a man was hitting his girl friend. We need to scream and shout and leave if we found out a man or SO was using us, emotionally abusing us, lying to us, or compromising our self wort!!!!

Its okay to leave a guy and its okay to be single. Stop feeling obligated to please someone else.

Love is amazing, sex is amazing, a child is amazing, bur you need to be considerate for yourself.

I have too many cousins who now are angry people because their parents did not want them. Their mother or father made a mistake and decided to keep the child. 18 years later this child is left feeling un wanted and depressed because they had a terrible childhood because their parent weren’t finacial, emotionally, or mentally prepared to have them.

No one deserves that kind of pain. Ladies it starts with you!!!

Women have been fighting for YEAR to allow us to have right to contraceptive. Years!!! Not that long ago women didn’t have access to sex education or birth control. In 2017-2018 their is no excuse!!!

And now our president is trying to take these rights away from us!!!!!!!!!

Ladies stop waiting until abortion or adoption are you last alternative options. Neither are bad decisions but it is ver TRUE that at this point, you are making a choice for someone else.

Think about all the women who have had no choice because of rape or an abusive situation. If you aren’t in those situations, PROTECT yourself.

in our pro sexual society, no one is willing to talk about the ugly side of having sex. Please think before you trust someone with your body. I love you all and enjoy yourself.

Im saying it because no one else is.

-Peace ❤️