Evening routine for parents of only children

Danielle

Hubby does drop off; i pick my daughter up. When we come home, I feel like she and I have a good routine, but then he comes home and all hell breaks loose. He starts to rough house with her like they do in the morning, and I want no part of it, so I end up leaving the room. It makes her so hard to put to bed when he does that. What happens at your house when your SO comes home? How do you transition from together time to family time?