If your ex broke up with you 5 years ago, and never told you why, and you started dating someone new for 2 and a half years, and you texted the ex bout why you guys broke up for closure... Does that mean you still have feelings for them? EDIT: Thank you ladies. Okay, new scenario. What if you broke up with your partner for 2 weeks over something unrelated, (not over cheating or anything, Just arguing too much and miscommunication) but got back together after 2 weeks, and you messaged your ex while broken up, is that still wrong?