My husband and I decided a long time ago that we wouldn't find out the gender of the baby until it's born. But now that I've started to show and feel movement, I'm starting to change my mind. My husband feels the same. We have had names picked out also for a long time (we're planners!!) so the moment we know the gender, we know the name.

What it's coming down to is that we have bonded with this baby... but we don't know their name. It feels weird. I didn't think it would bother me this much, mostly because I'm surprised at how much I love this little booger already!

If we do find out the gender, we plan on keeping it a secret from everyone still. It would just be for the two of us to know and bond with baby more.

I don't know if I have a question, just a rant I guess-- since this is a secret, I can't talk this through with anyone else! Any thoughts?