I took a shower before and after sex last night plus I pee after sex too and little bit in the shower and I still sorta got that pee feeling but I been drinking water this morning. It could just be the after affects from friction! what's a good kind of lube that is waterbase that won't cause urinary tract infections and other infections? My husband is having to wear condoms as well since I'm not on birth control but I think the laxtex, is giving me bacterial vagnosis,not sure though. What is a good kind of condom that doesn t cause bacterial vagnosis and etc?