Why is it when you’re in a relationship (just starting or for years) guys you had a crush on decide to ‘hit you up’ for one night stands or whatever? Like really you wait until you literally have no chance whatsoever!?

I just had a guy I use to like message me because he happen to notice me one day while I was out shopping and decided he wanted to ‘hit that’. He referred it to a bucket list thing he wanted to do. Then went on to sending me short vids from porn of ‘what he wanted to do to me’.

I told him no and I wasn’t going to hurt/ruin my four year relationship. Poor thing tried so hard but he ain’t getting between these thick thighs like he wanted.

Boy bye!!