UPDATE: bought a doc Johnson vaculock, which was ok, I think I want a different style harness though. I maybe the corset harness? what do you ladies use?? my man now understands why sometimes walk I can do is moan or say oh my. or get silent because I stop breathing...... had a lot of fun, but positioning was a little awkward for me. I don't think he noticed he was feeling so good! What's your fav position to do your man??? my SO and I have mentioned it during dirty talk and once in a more serious conversation. I am open to this and actually I get turned on thinking about giving to my man. just neither of us have done it like that before (anal with strap on for the guy) and wanting input from anyone who likes this, or has tried it. I know about being clean and all the hygiene stuff........