ok so my husbandand I live in a 2 bed apartment. the 2nd room was my study room since im trying to finish school. anyway in oct. we get a call from one of my husbandfriends mom asking to stay with us cuz the people she was staying with wanted their house back. we said sure... she a has a felonycharge so she cant get her own place and her kids dont like her cuz of stuff she did to them when they were like 2 or 3. she has a job its under the table. 10 an hr. she works from 8 to 12 but doesnt come home til 6pm. she pays 500 to her p.o a month. she doesnt pay rent, or pay any bills here ( my awesome husband and her made that deal) she get 60 in foodstamps, and all we ask if she can help out with food. well everything was going good. until she brought this guy over to our place 3 times without asking... and she would only do it when we were at work. so we spoke to her about it and then everyday it was like hey can so and so come over... for like 2 weeks. then all of a sudden she stop asking.. then like 3 weeks ago.. my husband and i are gettingready to go to work and this dude is in my living room, she looks at me and say i texted ya. ( we work over night so we sleep most of the day) im like did we text back. my husband goes oh its fine now cuz he already here... so we leave... we get home at 8 in the morning and the fucking guy is outside in his boxer smoking a cigarette... i was beyond pissed... then 3weeks ago she comes home around 7am. she usually at work. my husband asked y was she here and she like ohhh well something went down at work and blah blah blah. but i still have a job... its been 3 weeks and she still hasnt been to her job. she been laid up in my house for 3 weeks doing nothing, but watching tv. isnt even lookin for another job or nothing... then this lady has the balls to ask if she can borrow$500 to pay her p.o cuz she doesnt have the money...like look lady.. if by dec.31st. u arent working... u gotta go...my husband's told me im being to harsh on her ... she 50