Escort/Sugar Baby lifestyle?

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So I’ve recently signed up on a few sugar daddy/baby websites, mostly out of curiosity. I’ve gotten a lot of messages and offers and some seem pretty tempting. My only issue is my extreme fear and paranoia, I’m totally terrified of being raped/kidnapped/murdered/stalked (I mean it seems like everyday now we see in the news another woman is killed or beaten for rejecting a man or breaking up with a man etc), so I was just wondering if any of you ladies have dabbled in this lifestyle, and how you kept yourself safe? How did you “screen” these men and weed out the creeps/weirdos?

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Short answer: you can’t. Some people will give red flag warning signs straight away, many others will not. Realistically it isn’t safe, and if this is something that really bothers you, IMO it’s not the right lifestyle for you.

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From some friends I’ve witnessed this; 
Lie about yourself. Your name, school, career field, age, etc. 
Always travel 1+ hour away. Never use your actual zip code/area code. 
Be stern. Never falter. There are a lot of fakes, but also a lot of guys who know and respect the way the game is played.

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Try to schedule dates when a friend can go with you to watch from afar. If that’s not possible then try to check in with someone before, during and after your encounters with these guys. Meet in a public space during the day for brunch/coffee/lunch etc. But if you’re too paranoid I wouldn’t recommend this sort of thing honestly.

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I would stay out of it especially with paranoia issues. I’d be scared as shit too.. not worth it in my opinion.

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Don’t listen to the negative Nancy’s saying you aren’t respecting yourself. Set strict guidelines for any potential sugar daddies. Make sure you’re assertive in what you want and don’t want. Don’t sell yourself short. Those who are legitimate won’t demand sex on the first date and they shouldn’t. A lot of them just want company or friendship. Depending on the site you can report users if they ask anything suspicious of you. I did a lot of research on this a few years back because it was something I was considering. Look up sugar daddy scams and tips for sugar babies. Inform yourself thoroughly. When and if you decide to meet up with a potential sugar daddy do so in a public area. Never private! The best advice I can give you is to inform yourself by looking up tips for sugar babies, inform yourself of potential sugar daddy scams, and if in the end you still feel paranoid take in consideration what it’s doing to your mental health and stop.

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I did it. I never had sex with any guys that I went out with, we always went to public places. Listen to your gut and talk to them before going out. Tell at least one friend what you are doing and give her the details for who and where you are going with. Never be afraid to just walk away if you don’t like what is happening. I had a full time job at the time and did it for the extra money, nice dinners and for the adventure of it. It allowed me to pay off some debt I had and get where I wanted to be financially. There is nothing wrong with that, at all.

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You can never keep yourself 100% safe if you put yourself in that kind of position. All of those men want sex from the young women they are giving money to. Why do you think they give you money? They butter you up with lots of money and gifts then they start saying you owe them sex or they demand it. It's just not safe at all.

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Highly recommend not using those sites.

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I would take about it with my friend. I went on a few dates got a couple checks sent to me which i shredded because i got into my current relationship

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Find an honorable respectful job and dont put yourself in harms way. You cant want to play in a pigs pen and not deal with the pigs 🐷.

Escort/Sugar Baby lifestyle?

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