whats wrong with me?

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i have mc 4 times and its always around 5 months... what could i possibly be doing wrong? suggestions please :(

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2nd trimester losses are generally from blood clotting issues or incompetent cervix. I have 1 friend that has a blood order and she mc about 15wks. And the other lost 2 bc of incompetent cervix at 14wks. Sorry for your losses.

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I'm so sorry for your losses! This must be heartbreaking for you and your partner! 
​If i were you i would get a second opinion and maybe a third because this is not something a doctor should discard that easily. And also your baby's, you and your partner should be checked. 
​Hopefully they will find the reason and you will have a healthy nine month pregnancy!

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Hi Megan, your post says you mc at 5 months - were you not admitted to hospital miscarrying this far along and done tests on you and your babies? I'm so sorry to hear you have gone through so much heartache, one is too many for any woman.

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Get a new doctor. I had this problem with a previous partner and it turned out that he has a chromosomal defect and would never produce live children due to lung underdevelopment. Your partner needs to get checked.

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Ask the doctor to do testing for both you and your partner. Mc happen because their is something wrong with the baby, it's nothing you do or did that causes this to happen. Have you also asked the doctor to do testing once the baby has passed? I'm very sorry, I'm sure you would not want to do this, but once you pass the baby, if at home, collect in a container and bring to hospital. We did that with my sister to check to find out what was wrong, and hopefully to prevent another from happening. I'm very sorry you have to go through this.

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every time i go to my doctor he just asks how many mc ive had and does nothing about it ive even asked whats wrong

whats wrong with me?

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