YOU HAVE THE FUCKING NERVE (long)

My husband has the fuckin nerve to call me spoiled. I don't even know how these words could come out of his mouth when all I do is try to actually save money!! My husband is a pipeliner and makes anywhere from 10k to 12k a month and besides him paying the bills and my cell phone bill I really don't ask for anything much...we've been married for 10 months and decided a little over 2 yrs ago that I should quit my job to travel with him (BIG MISTAKE) anywho he recently bought and remodeled a home for his grandparents which cost about 30k all together...fine I didn't say anything about it..he bought a boat for 4k still didn't say anything about it...we had been talking about getting me a new car but when I seen exactly how much money he was putting into his grandparents house I decided to wait. Well in feb I found out I was preggo and he was excited to be a dad but his spending habits have not changed...without my knowledge he went and co-signed for his cousin a brand new car...WOW REALLY? so of course I was pissed about that but I let it go. I'm a home body so I don't go out I don't do my hair feet and nails often...or take time for myself everything consists of him and my 3yo daughter. He spends 150 a month on me and that's for my cellphone bill while I'm home cooking cleaning and caring for my DD any errands he needs me to do is done within a matter of a hour of his request...he comes home to a home cooked meal everyday...the issue is that we were in texas for 6months and he finally got enough off days so we could come home to visit family and friends we've been to his ppl since last Friday and he told me that we would go and see my ppl on Friday which just passed...well his cousin came into town and all of my plans got pushed back because again he wanted to do what he wanted to do so I left I packed up and got a hotel for the night and he said I'm spoiled because I simply wanted to go home...is feel like he puts his family b4 me all the time and with all baby on the way idk if he will ever change...is told him to fuck off and that I would send him all pic when the baby was born because I'm really on my last straw with him...I'm of I'm of was spoiled I would have my 750 (BMW) and my house would be built already...idk what else I could do...I'm so over him