Ive noticed I'm not interested in having sex anymore. My husband and I talked about our sex life last week how it hasn't been at its best. He told me he still finds me very much attractive but he feels like we are missing something. Anyways, when we first met I used to initiate sex most of the time. Next I noticed with the passing of the years how he used to be the one initiating sex. Now lately s neither of us. I dont know if hes just not initiating because he's tired of being the one all the time. I just find myself not feeling aroused, it takes me foreverrrr to orgasm and sometimes while having sex my vagina gets dry.. I don't think about sex anymore. ugh I dont know what wrong with me. I miss the good times . when I was younger I could have sex so many times and in still young I'm only 27 so I don't understand why I'm going through this