insecure about my body

Hey ladies I need some help with things that you do to help you feel better about your bodies.

I have 3 kids and after my last pregnancy really put on more weight than I am comfortable with. I wouldn't be caught dead naked. I even hate looking at myself in the mirror when I'm getting in the shower.

what are some things that you all do to boost your body image self asteem aside from the obvious of loosing a little weight. as of right now I dont see that happening for me. lol

what can I do to feel more sexy?