Sex starved relationship

OMG! I wish my boyfriend would want to have sex. We haven't had sex in 4 weeks and I'm going crazy while he thinks that this is perfectly okay.

I've tried everything I can possibly think of. I've tried talking to him about it. He promises he will try to meet that need more, but never does. I've tried dressing sexy, and last time I did he started getting upset because he didn't want to have sex. I've tried initiating sex and I get my hand moved or smacked by him or just a plain No. I've tried walking around naked, and he asks where my clothes are. I've tried flirting, in person and thru text and he just doesn't really respond to it except I love you's.

So I try taking care of myself, but it so isn't the same. I miss the intimacy of making love. I miss the closeness it makes me feel for him. I miss feeling like he can't keep his hands off me or feeling like he wants me and wants me now. I miss feeling like he can please me in ways nobody else can.

And no cheating is not an option to me. And yes I do believe he loves me but just doesn't want sex.

Just so flustered...wish we didn't have this stuggle.