I’m getting married!!! How to tell the fam need advice!

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We haven’t told most of our families yet so i can’t say anything online and i just can’t wait to say it!! We are planning on getting married at the courthouse in February as hes in the army and having a bigger wedding down the road, we’ve talked about maybe doing a party after but i can’t decide. Either way I’m so excited!!! I’m also super scared to tell my family I’m 19 and hes 20 but we’ve lived together almost a year now I’m just so scared of them not being supportive. My dad has been super supportive and has even helped me plan it , which makes me so happy! Side note my fiancé asked my dad for his blessing which i love so much!

Edit: we are planning on telling his family on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> since we will all he together and that never happens but i don’t know if its better to tell him individually or all at once i can’t decide. Also me and my mom have a really bad relationship so it’s always very awkward when we are together so i feel like this will just add to it ughh I’m so happy i just want my family to be happy to